Something that you want your spouse to do may not seem like an expectation to you; it may just seem like how things “should be,” but this is because it has something to do with how you are wired, which means you also feel loved when someone caters to how you are wired, and unloved when they don’t! But it may seem like an expectation to your spouse because that is NOT how they are wired, which then makes them feel unloved! So WHAT DO WE DO when how we are wired is different and may even seem to conflict with one another’s essence? This video explains.